Family Caregiving
Supporting an Older Person With Poor Appetite
Caring ways to help an older relative eat and drink more, with a food and fluid chart, small meals and a weight check log.
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UKUnited KingdomGBP USUnited StatesUSD CACanadaCAD AUAustraliaAUD IEIrelandEUR NZNew ZealandNZDPractical help for family caregivers: a clear care plan everyone can follow, ideas for a poor appetite, and ways to look after yourself along the way.
Millions of Americans help a parent, partner or relative with everyday life, often alongside a job and their own family. Caregiving can be meaningful, and it can also be exhausting, especially when the tasks are spread across siblings, appointments are hard to track and nobody has written anything down.
Help is available, though it varies by state and by program. The Eldercare Locator, run by the federal Administration for Community Living, connects families with their local Area Agency on Aging and community services, including meal programs for older adults; call or text 1-800-677-1116. The National Family Caregiver Support Program is also delivered through Area Agencies on Aging, so your local agency is the place to ask what support is available where you live.
Our caregiving courses are general education, not care management. They help you organize the practical side (contacts, medicines lists, rotas and emergency information) and look after your own health while you care for someone else.
Family Caregiving
Caring ways to help an older relative eat and drink more, with a food and fluid chart, small meals and a weight check log.
Family Caregiving
For family caregivers running on empty: track the pressure, plan real breaks, map your support and build a self-care plan that fits.
Family Caregiving
One clear plan for family caregiving: who does what and when, key contacts, an emergency information sheet and a schedule everyone can see.
Keep a copy of the emergency information sheet by the phone or on the fridge, and share it with everyone on the rota. It saves time if paramedics or a hospital need details quickly.
Contact the person's doctor if they:
Call 911 if the person has chest pain, trouble breathing, signs of a stroke, or cannot be woken. Caregiving can push anyone to the edge; if you feel you cannot go on or think about suicide, call or text 988.
Yes. Caring from a distance, by phone, regular visits, managing appointments or handling bills, still counts. Many of the tools are designed for families who share care across different homes.
Call or text the Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116. It connects you to your local Area Agency on Aging, which can tell you about services such as meals, respite care and caregiver support programs in your area.
The Medicare Annual Wellness Visit includes a review of functional ability, fall risk and cognition and a personalized prevention plan. Going with your parent, if they agree, and bringing the care plan can make the visit more useful.
They teach general caregiving skills that apply to many situations, including dementia, but they are not specialist dementia training. The person's doctor can point you to local memory care services.
Yes. The plan, rota and contact sheets download as PDFs, so you can share them by email or print a copy for the fridge.
No. Rules on medical decision-making, power of attorney and paying for care vary by state, so speak to an elder law attorney or your local Area Agency on Aging for advice on those questions.
Open Building a Family Care Plan and fill in the key contacts sheet today.