Menopause · Symptoms

Hot flushes are only the start. The NHS names 16 symptoms of perimenopause and menopause, from period changes and palpitations to brain fog, joint pain and UTIs. Here is each one in plain English, what helps, and when to talk to a GP.

All 16 NHS-listed symptoms What helps each one Free symptom snapshot

The short answer

The NHS lists these symptoms of perimenopause and menopause: changes to your periods, hot flushes and night sweats, sleep problems, mood changes, poor memory and brain fog, weight gain, vaginal dryness or itching, more UTIs, plus palpitations, bone density loss, leaking urine or peeing more often, worse headaches, joint and muscle pain, hair thinning, dry itchy skin, a lower sex drive and mouth or gum problems. Symptoms usually last 7 to 9 years, sometimes longer. Most can be eased with lifestyle changes, CBT, HRT or other treatments, so talk to a GP if they are affecting your life. Any bleeding after 12 months without a period needs checking.

This is the starting point for our menopause guides. Each symptom below links to a deeper article, starting with the early signs of perimenopause and what actually helps hot flushes and night sweats. Every fact comes from the NHS website and the NICE menopause guideline.

PerimenopausePeriods changePeriods become irregular and symptoms can start. Changing periods are usually one of the first signs.
Menopause12 months, no periodNo period for 12 months, when you are not using hormonal contraception. The UK average age is 51.
AfterwardsPostmenopauseThe years after menopause. Some symptoms, such as joint pain and vaginal dryness, can carry on.
Earlier than usualBefore 45 or 40Before 45 is early menopause. Before 40 is premature menopause. Both are worth discussing with a GP.

Perimenopause, menopause and postmenopause: what the words mean

The NHS describes menopause and perimenopause as a natural part of life, when your periods change and eventually stop because hormone levels fall. It can affect anyone who has periods. The words get used loosely, so here is how they fit together.

  • Perimenopause is the time when your periods become irregular. Symptoms can start at this stage, while you are still having periods, which is why they are easy not to connect with menopause at first.
  • Menopause is when your periods have stopped altogether. The NHS defines it as not having a period for 12 months when you are not using hormonal contraception.
  • Postmenopause is the usual name for the years that follow. The NHS notes that some symptoms, such as joint pain and vaginal dryness, can continue after menopause.

What age does menopause start in the UK?

The NHS says menopause usually happens between 45 and 55. The NICE menopause guideline gives the average age in the UK as 51. It can happen earlier: menopause before 45 is called early menopause, and before 40 premature menopause. NICE says about 1 in 100 women have premature ovarian insufficiency, meaning menopause before 40.

Early menopause can happen naturally, sometimes for no clear reason, or after surgery to remove the ovaries, radiotherapy, chemotherapy or some hormone medicines. The NHS says a family history, starting periods early, smoking and being underweight can also raise the chance.

51average age of menopause in the UK (NICE)
8 in 10women have some symptoms (NICE)
7 to 9 yrshow long symptoms usually last (NHS)
1 in 100reach menopause before 40 (NICE)

How long do symptoms last? The NHS says they usually last 7 to 9 years, sometimes longer, and that they can change over that time. The NHS also says menopause is different for everyone: some people have symptoms that have a big impact on daily life, others have few. Knowing that they come and go explains why a single bad week tells you less than a pattern over two months. Our guide to perimenopause signs goes deeper on the early stage.

Are there really 34 symptoms of menopause?

Search for menopause symptoms and you will find lists of 34, 48 and even 62. None of these numbers comes from the NHS or NICE, and the pages using them rarely say where the count comes from. Long lists tend to split one symptom into several (for example "itchy skin", "dry skin" and "crawling skin") or add things that have many other causes.

The NHS does not give a number. Its symptoms page has 7 headed sections and a list of 9 "other" symptoms, which adds up to 16. That is the list we use in this guide. It is not the whole story for everyone, and the NHS itself says menopause "may affect you in other ways", but it is the list a UK GP will recognise. If you have a symptom that is not here, it is still worth mentioning, because a GP can check whether something else is going on.

The symptom map: all 16 NHS symptoms in 3 groups

We have grouped the NHS list into three areas, because the things that help tend to follow the same lines. In the map, mood and brain fog are shown as two tiles, although the NHS puts them under one heading.

Menopause symptom map: the symptoms on the NHS list grouped into body and periods (10), vaginal, bladder and sex (4), and mind and sleep (3). Body and periods · 10 Changes to periods Hot flushes, night sweats Palpitations Headaches, migraines Joint and muscle pain Weight gain Dry, itchy skin Hair thinning or loss Teeth, gums, mouth Bone density loss Vaginal, bladder and sex · 4 Vaginal dryness, itch More UTIs or UTI-like signs Leaking or peeing more Lower sex drive Mind and sleep · 3 Sleep problems Mood swings, low mood Poor memory, brain fog Menopause symptom map: the symptoms on the NHS list grouped into body and periods (10), vaginal, bladder and sex (4), and mind and sleep (3). Body and periods · 10 Changes to periods Hot flushes, night sweats Palpitations Headaches, migraines Joint and muscle pain Weight gain Dry, itchy skin Hair thinning or loss Teeth, gums, mouth Bone density loss Vaginal, bladder and sex · 4 Vaginal dryness, itch More UTIs or UTI-like signs Leaking or peeing more Lower sex drive Mind and sleep · 3 Sleep problems Mood swings, low mood Poor memory, brain fog
The symptoms named on the NHS menopause symptoms page, grouped by MyNutriCare. You do not need all of them, or even most of them, for it to be perimenopause or menopause.

Body and period symptoms, and what helps each one

These are the physical changes. Each block gives the NHS description, then what helps, then where to read more.

Changes to your periods

The NHS says a change to your periods is usually one of the first signs of perimenopause. They may come more often or less often, and bleeding may get heavier or lighter, before they eventually stop.

What helpsKeep a simple diary of dates and flow, because a GP is likely to ask about your periods. Bleeding that is heavier than before is a reason to see a GP. You can still get pregnant in perimenopause: the NHS says to keep using contraception for 2 years after your last period if you are 40 to 49, or 1 year if you are 50 or over. HRT is not contraception. More in perimenopause signs.

Hot flushes and night sweats

Hot flushes are when your face, neck and chest suddenly feel very hot or cold. The NHS says they can make you sweat a lot, cause palpitations or anxiety, or make you feel dizzy. NICE names hot flushes and night sweats as the most common symptoms.

What helpsNHS self-help: wear lightweight clothing, keep your bedroom cool, try a fan, a cool shower or a cold drink, and cut down on triggers such as spicy food, caffeine, hot drinks, smoking and alcohol. Regular exercise, a healthy weight and less stress help too. CBT can help, and a GP can discuss HRT or non-hormonal medicines such as clonidine or an antidepressant. More in hot flushes and night sweats.

Palpitations

The NHS describes palpitations as a faster, slower or more noticeable heartbeat. They can come with a hot flush or on their own.

What helpsThe NHS lists palpitations as a reason to see a GP, so get them checked rather than assuming they are hormonal. Note when they happen, how long they last and whether a flush comes with them. Our GP appointment guide shows how to describe them.

Headaches and migraines

The NHS lists headaches and migraines that are worse than usual among the other symptoms of menopause and perimenopause.

What helpsNote whether headaches cluster around changes in your cycle or poor nights, and take that record to a GP, who can look at the options with you. Regular sleep and the general NHS advice on rest and relaxation are a sensible base.

Joint pains and muscle aches

Muscle aches and joint pains are on the NHS list, and NICE mentions joint and muscle stiffness. The NHS notes that joint pain is one of the symptoms that can continue after menopause.

What helpsThe NHS advises regular exercise, including weight-bearing and resistance exercise, which also protects your bones. If pain is new, severe, or comes with swelling, mention it to a GP, as joint pain has many causes. Our Strength Training for Menopause course has an 8-week plan that works around symptoms.

Weight gain

The NHS says weight gain during perimenopause and menopause is common, and often happens around the stomach and upper body.

What helpsThe NHS advice is a healthy, balanced diet with calcium-rich foods, regular exercise and keeping to a healthy weight. See menopause weight gain for the habits that matter and the menopause diet for what to eat.

Skin, hair and mouth changes

Three symptoms from the NHS "other" list sit together here: skin changes, including dry and itchy skin; hair thinning or hair loss; and sensitive teeth, painful gums or other mouth problems.

What helpsThese are easy to put down to age, so list them for your GP alongside your other symptoms rather than leaving them out. Keep up regular dental check-ups and tell your dentist about gum or tooth changes. If hair loss is sudden or patchy, see a GP, as it can have other causes.

Bone density loss

This is the one symptom you cannot feel. The NHS lists loss of bone density, which can lead to osteoporosis, as an effect of menopause. We cover it in the long-term health section below.

What helpsWeight-bearing exercise such as walking, running or dancing, resistance exercise such as weights, calcium from foods like milk, yoghurt and kale, some sunlight and a vitamin D supplement, not smoking and cutting down on alcohol. HRT can also reduce the risk of osteoporosis.

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Vaginal, bladder and sex symptoms, and what helps

These are the symptoms women are least likely to raise, yet there are simple treatments that help. The NHS notes that vaginal dryness can carry on after menopause, so it is worth asking early rather than waiting for it to pass.

Vaginal dryness, burning, irritation or itching

The NHS says you may get dryness, a burning feeling, irritation or itching in and around the vagina, which can make sex painful. Vaginal dryness is one of the symptoms that can continue after menopause.

What helpsVaginal moisturisers and lubricants are available from pharmacies without a prescription, and a pharmacist can advise you privately. If you use condoms, choose a water-based lubricant, because oil-based ones can damage condoms. A GP can prescribe HRT, or oestrogen creams, pessaries, gels or a vaginal ring. More in HRT explained.

More UTIs, or symptoms that feel like one

The NHS says you may get more urinary tract infections, or symptoms that feel like a UTI, such as pain or a burning feeling when you pee, or needing to pee more often. For a closer look, see our guide: Menopause brain fog.

What helpsGet repeated or UTI-like symptoms checked by a GP or pharmacist. The NHS says oestrogen creams or pessaries can treat urinary symptoms as well as vaginal dryness, so mention both together.

Leaking urine or needing to pee more often

Urinary incontinence, or needing to pee more often, is on the NHS list of other menopause symptoms.

What helpsFor incontinence, the NHS describes pelvic floor muscle training of at least 8 squeezes, at least 3 times a day, for at least 3 months, plus cutting back on caffeine, which can make your body produce more urine. A GP can also talk to you about bladder training, which usually lasts at least 6 weeks. Pelvic Floor and Bladder Health in Menopause gives you a 12-week plan and a bladder diary.

Lower sex drive

A reduced sex drive is on the NHS list, and NICE mentions a lack of interest in sex. Painful sex from vaginal dryness can feed into it.

What helpsTreat dryness first, as above. The NHS says testosterone gel or cream may help low libido for some people, and a menopause specialist may prescribe it. Your GP is the place to start. See HRT explained for how the hormones fit together.

Mind and sleep symptoms, and what helps

These are easy to mistake for stress or simply being busy. They can also feed each other: the NHS says sleep problems can leave you irritable, stressed and anxious.

Sleep problems

The NHS says not being able to get to sleep or stay asleep can affect your daily life, making you feel irritable, stressed and anxious. Sleep problems may be worse if you also have night sweats.

What helpsKeep a regular sleep routine, keep the bedroom cool and manage triggers such as stress. CBT can help with sleep problems, and the NHS says HRT can help sleep problems too. If night sweats wake you, start with our night sweats guide; Sleep and Menopause adds a night symptom diary and a bedroom cooling checklist.

Mood swings, low mood and anxiety

The NHS says you may have mood swings, low mood or depression, and that hot flushes can bring on anxiety.

What helpsRest, regular exercise and relaxing activities such as yoga, tai chi or meditation, and talking to people going through the same thing. CBT can help with low mood and anxiety. HRT can help anxiety and low mood, and antidepressants may be offered for low mood, depression or anxiety linked to menopause. More in menopause mood and anxiety.

Poor memory, concentration and brain fog

The NHS groups poor memory and brain fog with mood changes. NICE describes memory and concentration loss among the symptoms.

What helpsTreating sleep problems and night sweats is a sensible first step. Regular exercise, rest and relaxation are part of the general NHS advice. If brain fog is worrying you or affecting work, tell a GP and describe real examples. More in menopause brain fog.

If you feel you cannot cope

Low mood that does not lift, or thoughts of harming yourself, need help now rather than at a routine appointment. The NHS says to call 111 and choose the mental health option, call Samaritans free on 116 123, or call 999 or go to A&E if your life is at risk. If you are 18 or over and registered with a GP, the NHS says you can also refer yourself to NHS talking therapies without speaking to a GP first.

Symptom snapshot: what are you living with?

Tick anything you have noticed in the last few months. You will see your count by group, the guides that match, and a short list to take to your GP. Nothing is saved.

Body and periods

Vaginal, bladder and sex

Mind and sleep

About you

Tick a symptom to start

Your snapshot will build here as you go.

A prompt for a conversation, not a diagnosis. Only a GP can confirm menopause or rule out other causes.

Treatments at a glance: what a GP can offer

NICE says your healthcare professional should talk through all the options with you, including benefits and risks, and that decisions are best made together, taking into account your age, medical history and preferences. These are the main options the NHS describes.

OptionWhat it isSymptoms the NHS links it to
HRT: oestrogenThe main hormone in HRT, as tablets, patches, spray or gel. If you still have your womb you also need a progestogen, as tablets, a combined patch or a hormonal coil (IUS).Most symptoms, including hot flushes, night sweats, sleep problems, anxiety, low mood and vaginal dryness. Also helps prevent osteoporosis.
Vaginal oestrogenCreams, pessaries, gels or a vaginal ring that treat the area directly.Vaginal dryness and soreness, and urinary symptoms.
TestosteroneGel or cream, which a menopause specialist may prescribe.Low sex drive, for some people.
CBTA talking therapy.Hot flushes, low mood, anxiety and sleep problems.
Non-hormonal medicinesClonidine or an antidepressant for flushes; antidepressants for mood.Hot flushes and night sweats; low mood, depression or anxiety.
Herbal remediesSuch as red clover and black cohosh.The NHS says there is very little evidence on how well they work or how safe they are, and they can cause serious side effects with other medicines. Check with a doctor first.

Is HRT safe?

The NHS says the risk of serious side effects from HRT is usually very low, and depends on the type, how long you take it and your own health. If you are under 60, have menopause symptoms and are not at high risk of breast cancer or blood clots, the NHS says the benefits are likely to outweigh the risks. Combined HRT slightly increases the risk of breast cancer, while oestrogen-only HRT has little or no effect on it. Tablets slightly raise the risk of blood clots, which is still very low, but patches, sprays and gels do not. People who have had breast cancer are usually advised not to take HRT. Our full guide, HRT explained, covers the types and risks in detail. For your own situation, speak to your GP or pharmacist.

Bones and heart: the long view

Menopause is not only about how you feel day to day. Lower oestrogen affects your bones, and an early menopause affects your heart risk too.

  • Bones. The NHS lists bone density loss, which can lead to osteoporosis, as an effect of menopause. NICE says women should be given advice on bone health and that it should be discussed at review appointments. HRT helps prevent bone thinning, which the NHS says matters most if your periods stop before 45.
  • Heart. The NHS says early menopause raises the risk of cardiovascular disease as well as osteoporosis, which is why replacing the missing hormones is emphasised for women who reach menopause early. NICE says HRT does not increase cardiovascular disease risk when started under 60, and the NHS says research shows little or no effect on coronary heart disease.

For food, the NHS points to a healthy, balanced diet with plenty of fruit and vegetables and calcium sources such as milk, yoghurt and kale. Our menopause diet guide turns that into everyday meals, and the Complete Menopause Nutrition Course (£24.99, Premium) builds bone- and heart-friendly eating into a 7-day planner and a 90-day plan.

How menopause is diagnosed in the UK

Many women expect a blood test. For most, there is not one. The NICE guideline sets out three routes, depending on age:

  • Over 45: for otherwise healthy women, NICE says GPs should diagnose perimenopause from hot flushes or night sweats plus irregular periods, and menopause after 12 months without a period (when you are not on hormonal contraception), without laboratory tests.
  • 40 to 45: NICE says a GP may consider an FSH blood test if you have menopause symptoms, including a change in your cycle.
  • Under 40: premature ovarian insufficiency is diagnosed from symptoms plus raised FSH levels on 2 blood samples taken 4 to 6 weeks apart. NICE says it should not be diagnosed from a single blood test.

That is why your own record matters so much. The more clearly you can describe what has changed, when and how often, the easier it is for a GP to recognise the pattern. Our menopause GP appointment guide shows what to bring and what to ask.

When to see a GP about menopause symptoms

The NHS says see a GP if...

  • you think you have symptoms of menopause or perimenopause and want to know your options
  • you have symptoms such as palpitations
  • you still have periods and are bleeding more than before
  • you are on HRT and still have irregular or heavier bleeding, or spotting, after 6 months
  • you are under 45 and think you have menopause symptoms: a GP may sometimes offer blood tests
  • you have not had a period for 12 months or more and have any vaginal bleeding, even once, even if it is only spotting, or if you are not sure it is blood

The NHS says bleeding after menopause is usually not serious, but it can occasionally be a sign of cancer, so it always needs checking.

For early menopause, the NHS says a specialist menopause centre can be considered if symptoms carry on. The NHS also points to charities such as The Menopause Charity, Women's Health Concern (run by the British Menopause Society) and Rock My Menopause.

When symptoms follow you to work

Hot flushes in meetings, broken sleep and brain fog do not stay at home. If symptoms are affecting your work, you do not have to manage alone or in silence. Our guide to menopause at work in the UK covers how to raise it with your manager, the adjustments people commonly ask for and where the official guidance sits. The Menopause at Work course (£17.99) adds a ready-to-send adjustments request letter, a symptom diary and a manager conversation script.

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Questions women ask about menopause symptoms

What are usually the first signs of perimenopause?

The NHS says one of the first signs is usually a change to your periods: they may come more or less often, and bleeding may get heavier or lighter. Hot flushes, night sweats, sleep problems and mood changes can start at the same stage, while you are still having periods.

Are there really 34 symptoms of menopause?

Neither the NHS nor NICE gives that number. The NHS lists 16 symptoms: 7 main ones (period changes, hot flushes and night sweats, sleep problems, mood and memory changes, weight gain, vaginal problems and UTIs) and 9 others, including palpitations, joint pain, headaches, hair thinning, skin changes and bone density loss.

How long do menopause symptoms last?

The NHS says symptoms usually last 7 to 9 years, sometimes longer, and can change over that time. Some, such as joint pain and vaginal dryness, can continue after menopause.

What is the average age of menopause in the UK?

The NICE menopause guideline gives the average age in the UK as 51. The NHS says it usually happens between 45 and 55. Menopause before 45 is called early menopause, and before 40 premature menopause.

Do I need a blood test to confirm menopause?

Usually not if you are over 45. NICE says GPs should diagnose perimenopause and menopause from your symptoms and periods without laboratory tests. A blood test may be considered between 40 and 45, and is used to diagnose premature ovarian insufficiency under 40.

Can menopause cause palpitations and anxiety?

Yes. The NHS lists palpitations as a menopause symptom and says hot flushes can cause palpitations or anxiety. It also lists palpitations as a reason to see a GP, so get them checked rather than assuming they are hormonal.

When should I see a GP about menopause symptoms?

The NHS says see a GP if you want to know your options, have palpitations, are bleeding more than before, are under 45 with symptoms, or have any vaginal bleeding after 12 months without a period, even just once.

Sources

This article is general information based on UK public health guidance. It is not medical advice. If you have symptoms, a health condition, or questions about treatment, speak to your GP or pharmacist.

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